Don’t get me wrong, I get
it. But you need to let it go. I know you sit and think about how you were
when you were together and how marvelous it was. You sit and replay over and over how good you
were together; the way they made you feel, the secrets you shared. Every soul shattering iota of passion, warmth
and caring that cascades over you when you sit and dwell on the memories.
What you need to realize is
that it is all bullshit. They are not
that person. They are not the one you
want. What you want is the idea of them
in your head, not who they really are.
Because if they were that person, they would be here, and they’re not.
You need to get over
it. Stop sitting there everyday
torturing yourself with their memory.
You’re not a child anymore. You
need to put the past in the past. I
didn’t say it wouldn’t hurt and it won’t be easy but you need to stop
whining. Everyone gets it. We’ve all been there. But we had the decency not to skulk around
for an indeterminate amount of time. So
drop your balls and grow up already.
I can guarantee that if they
aren’t in your life right now, they aren’t thinking about you.
